Judge Rinder

[Desert Region]

Misogynists may be a good spellers it is still ugly to read.

Was Nomad a misogynist (as well as a good speller)?!

[Little Londoner]

Ok fair enough looks can be deceptive maybe judge rinder is not gay after all, sorry my mistake .

His Husband will confirm whether he is or not.

[MICK/GILLY]

Yea he is not gay but his boyfriend is, I suppose he is the definition of gay looking .

[Desert Region]

Supposedly, Grassroots is the opposite of 'gay looking' while the guy below is the definition (or should that be: exemplar?) of 'gay looking'.

[Little Londoner]

You are a puzzle Mr Gilly!

When a man loves a partner legal consensual sex any pleasure is ok you would agree?

In differentiating who is allowed to enjoy the latter I think I would go on character not sex.

The thing is Hamble like me a lot of people don't want to know about other peoples sex lives if they are together and they are happy fine but if they want to prance about like the Sugar Plum Fairy MAKING everyone know what they are that's when I switch off.
I don't go round telling everyone I'm heterosexual and I've been married x amount of years it's nothing to do with anyone but my Wife and I.
I think Rock Hudson was a case in point he never announced his sexuality and he was liked by both men and women for his acting ability but after he died and the truth came gushing out it was a shock to everyone. That is how it should be private, until his former partners start *****ing at each other.
And before the usual suspects start the Homophobic
jibes I am not scared of Homosexuals just not interested in what they do in private.

[MICK/GILLY]

Supposedly, Grassroots is the opposite of 'gay looking' while the guy below is the definition (or should that be: exemplar?) of 'gay looking'.

I couldn’t have put it better myself

[Desert Region]

I couldn’t have put it better myself

Whoosh.

[Toodles McGinty]

And before the usual suspects start the Homophobic
jibes I am not scared of Homosexuals just not interested in what they do in private.

Do you know what Rinder does in private?

Do you know what straight people do in private?

Because as far as I know, the two aren't wildly different.

And most of us don't start thinking what people do 'in private', just by looking at them, talking to them, knowing them, or seeing them on TV.

Why do you automatically think about sex if you see a gay man? I assume that's what you mean when you say 'in private', rather than how he arranges his plates in the cupboard, or the colour scheme in his lounge. Because who would think about those things? And again, not something anyone considers.

[Hamble]

Was Nomad a misogynist (as well as a good speller)?!

Hard question.
Generally misogynist no to one female yes.

[Hamble]

The thing is Hamble like me a lot of people don't want to know about other peoples sex lives if they are together and they are happy fine but if they want to prance about like the Sugar Plum Fairy MAKING everyone know what they are that's when I switch off.
I don't go round telling everyone I'm heterosexual and I've been married x amount of years it's nothing to do with anyone but my Wife and I.
I think Rock Hudson was a case in point he never announced his sexuality and he was liked by both men and women for his acting ability but after he died and the truth came gushing out it was a shock to everyone. That is how it should be private, until his former partners start *****ing at each other.
And before the usual suspects start the Homophobic
jibes I am not scared of Homosexuals just not interested in what they do in private.

Rock Hudson kept his sexuality quiet in the days it would have meant his career would have ended.
That is sad and for all the other men and women trapped in such a position.

I quite like a bit of prancing and outrageous ham.
Some gay men are entrancingly beautiful.

Are you saying the bit about gay men you do not like is they advertise their sexuality by being effeminate?
that is the bit you do not like

[MICK/GILLY]

Do you know what Rinder does in private?

Do you know what straight people do in private?

Because as far as I know, the two aren't wildly different.

And most of us don't start thinking what people do 'in private', just by looking at them, talking to them, knowing them, or seeing them on TV.

Why do you automatically think about sex if you see a gay man? I assume that's what you mean when you say 'in private', rather than how he arranges his plates in the cupboard, or the colour scheme in his lounge. Because who would think about those things? And again, not something anyone considers.

I am guessing he has sex with men in private
Straight people more than likely have sex with people of the opposite sex
I think the two things are as wildly different as they can be
If someone looks gay sounds gay you know they are gay and professes to be gay on tv it’s a safe bet folk think of what they do in private besides wallpaper colour scheme yea that’s normal.
I don’t know why most think about sex when they see a gay man, by the very nature of the question they just do, it could be a natural reaction like trying your very hardest not to look at a ladies boobs but never managing it.
You ask some daft questions you do, I am not totally homophobic I really don’t mind gay men that don’t proudly prance around and I think lesbians are not offensive at all in any way in fact I fully support them . .

[donkey22]

Do you know what Rinder does in private?

Do you know what straight people do in private?

Because as far as I know, the two aren't wildly different.

And most of us don't start thinking what people do 'in private', just by looking at them, talking to them, knowing them, or seeing them on TV.

Why do you automatically think about sex if you see a gay man? I assume that's what you mean when you say 'in private', rather than how he arranges his plates in the cupboard, or the colour scheme in his lounge. Because who would think about those things? And again, not something anyone considers.

It seems to me like there could be a couple of ‘red blooded males’ on this site showing classic signs of having issues regarding their own suppressed sexuality.

[Toodles McGinty]

it could be a natural reaction like trying your very hardest not to look at a ladies boobs but never managing it. .

Christ almighty.

I'd try a bit ******* harder if I were you.

[MICK/GILLY]

Hamble .

I have known a couple of men of the older generation that at first glance may be described as effeminate but in reality we’re just very nice gentle men with a nice personality, one in particular was brought up with sisters and could knit, he was kind and gracious and well liked by many he was far from gay and would be deeply offended if you were to call him that.
So effeminate doesn’t always mean gay, some women and gay men like the theatrics of a gay sparkly eyed personality and most men like lesbians that’s a fact, for me it fits well in comedy, are you being served just wouldn’t have a storyline without John Inman and Larry Grayson and graham Norton just wouldn’t have an act and for all my perceived hatred of prancing gays I do actually like the comedy of Julian clary and Hugh jelly so in comedy it’s ok, like laughing at death it’s there there’s nothing you can do about it, it’s shockingly funny when it’s not sad.

[Desert Region]

I am guessing he has sex with men in private
Straight people more than likely have sex with people of the opposite sex
I think the two things are as wildly different as they can be
If someone looks gay sounds gay you know they are gay and professes to be gay on tv it’s a safe bet folk think of what they do in private besides wallpaper colour scheme yea that’s normal.
I don’t know why most think about sex when they see a gay man, by the very nature of the question they just do, it could be a natural reaction like trying your very hardest not to look at a ladies boobs but never managing it.
You ask some daft questions you do, I am not totally homophobic I really don’t mind gay men that don’t proudly prance around and I think lesbians are not offensive at all in any way in fact I fully support them . .

Hackneyed throwback stuff. Verging on parody.